A succesful, choosing guy is not a guy who has sex with them because he was a nice guy, but a guy who has sex with them despite being a rude guy who knows no feminism. Here you have a paid example.
The strangest things happen in the Green Zone of SLAVECon. As a game, I took up the offer that a rude Imperial made me of riding him, thinking he would be easy to dominate this way, when he started to gain the upper hand. I ... didn't hate this ...