A succesful, choosing guy is not a guy who has sex with them because he was a nice guy, but a guy who has sex with them despite being a rude guy who knows no feminism. Here you have a paid example.
She never forgets what he told her: "if you don't want to lose me, you must be good with me". And she really loves him. He knows the secret of success with women isn't how you behave, if you are what women want.
Torn between humiliation and supreme pleasure. It's not even physical. She just loves to see him happy so much, she loves knowing he's pleasuring himself in her ass. It's even better than she feels used and degraded.
Love going out like this when I know my slave is locked. The best part is coming home seeing him kneel and almost crying because he does not know what his queen did or did not do! And then I tell him.