A succesful, choosing guy is not a guy who has sex with them because he was a nice guy, but a guy who has sex with them despite being a rude guy who knows no feminism. Here you have a paid example.
Every nice guy has to go through an X day in his life: every nice guy thinks he would end up feeling really bad if he succeeded in making a girl have to approach him for sex, until one day he happens to inadvertently witness at some club how pathetically