Her submission to you is full of nuances and subtle conditions so she seems to be submitting to you but she really isn't? In reality she thinks you're not a superior Man and she'll leave you as soon as she runs into one
The bully promised to leave you alone for a week if you sent him a video of you licking your bedpost. Seemed easy enough so you did it. As soon as you sent it, you got a response back: "That's two weeks off for you, your mom paid for the second week with