"The ignorant regard this as indecent, but it is not a teaching that encourages lust and leads people to desire. In reality it is the marvellous art of cultivating life. Su Nü miao lun, Ming Dynasty (1368–1644)
Her submission to you is full of nuances and subtle conditions so she seems to be submitting to you but she really isn't? In reality she thinks you're not a superior Man and she'll leave you as soon as she runs into one
