So since picking superior men is the best choice female inferiority can make, somehow we can see it and understand it as preference for superior men being the only "strength" and "independence" of female inferiority, which is why feminism demands respect
So if a woman rejects inferior men and she picks the best possible man she finds, she's a smart modern feminist who uses her freedom wisely and whose choice must be respected. But if a man only accepts women that submit to him, his masculinity is toxic