It's the inferior that needs the superior. It's women that are picky, women are the choosing party: female inferiority prefers superior men over inferior men. Men are promiscuous: the winning male would pass his genes to all the females; there's only one
So we can state that female inferiority is picky about men, so women's perfect utopia is that of being accepted for a relationship by the most superior man in the world; and male superiority isn't picky but promiscuous, and so its perfect utopia is a hare