Every nice guy has to go through an X day in his life: every nice guy thinks he would end up feeling really bad if he succeeded in making a girl have to approach him for sex, until one day he happens to inadvertently witness at some club how pathetically
So women feel validationally happy when their physical pain and moral degradation succeed in amusing and getting enjoyed by a superior man. This is why women can validationally enjoy being mistreated as long as it is by a superior man