She didn't understand why the Free women hated her so when she went out in public, it wasn't her fault that she was pretty, nor her choice to be naked. OK, the jeweled harness was totally her idea, but THEY didn't know that!
Your wife is pretty much just a sex object for your bully. Nothing but a toy for him. So why would he share his sex object with you? Isn't it only reasonable you never get to see her naked again? He owns her tits, not you.