I think there are socially better ways of not asking for them to be looked at than showing them at a social meeting and expecting everybody to close their eyes.
I know I shouldn't have waited till the night of our wedding... But I really didn't want you running away once you found out how depraved and controlling I really am. Don't worry, this collar is going to look great on you from now on, just accept it.
I'll never forget how needy my mom seemed around my bully, how she threw herself at him and of course, how depraved she seemed in the videos that he sent me. All in all, I'll always know that he was, by definition, a true alpha male.