A succesful, choosing guy is not a guy who has sex with them because he was a nice guy, but a guy who has sex with them despite being a rude guy who knows no feminism. Here you have a paid example.
[DDK-134] An Honor Student And Class President Switches Bodies With A Horny Old Lady! This Straight Arrow Schoolgirl Has Now Become A Crude And Rude Sex Machine -1080p- Starring Shuri Atomi