Trisha used to get her mouth soaped when she said bad words as a little girl. Still a brat in young adulthood, her father now has more effective means of punishing her when she says awful things like "rape culture" or "feminine dignity".
Your mom “accidentally” sent this to your bully. Of course he’s taking this as an opportunity to blackmail her. He says if she doesn’t want the video posted all over the net, she’ll have to obey his every word.